Wednesday, July 14, 2010

No More Mister Nice Groom

OhmygawdUguys. Mike blogged! He said he was going to step up and take the wedding reigns from here on out, and I am ecstatic he made the time to blog about it!! So take it away, my dear Aladdin Love...

Get ready wedding blog readers, there’s a new sheriff in town.  The date of our vaunted nuptials is fast approaching, and there simply isn’t time for any more of this froo-froo “oh they turned our venue into a toxic waste dump” nonsense.  I will now be commanding this wedding, and I intend to rule with strength and with terror.  

Bowie Bride has taken the lead throughout the planning of our wedding.  She has done excellent work in the creative and organizational realm.  She has a coherent vision for our wedding that I love.  She is wonderful and intelligent and sexy and blah blah blah she’s not in charge anymore.  The time for creativity and lace and bouquets is over.  Dead as disco.  Now it’s time for construction, logistics, and pain.  

See, BB isn’t just excellent at the creative stuff needed to make this wedding work—I’m terrible at it.  Take colors, for instance.  She finds certain combinations of colors that look good together, and is able to compare those combinations to one another in order to determine the “best” one.  I can’t.  I’m attempting to think of a color combination that works together and am drawing a complete blank.  Blue, gray and yellow?  Green, Orange and white?  (I cheated and looked at my T-shirt and Snapple bottle, respectively, how’d I do?)

See, to me when I think of colors, I think of this:

And when somebody says to me “blue orange and white are a good/bad combination,” I think to myself  “what is it about the photons at 450 nanometers wavelength instead of 600 nanometers wavelength on the spectrum of visible light?  What property makes them look good together?”  Which, clearly, is no way to plan a wedding.  
 
Fortunately, wedding planning is over.  Don’t worry your pretty little head, Bowie Bride, the cavalry is here.  I had to smile and nod when you talked to me about design decisions, but I feel physics in my bones.  Constructing light installations?  No problem.  Building a photo booth?  Child’s play.  Creating an audio setup blending I-pod, videos, live music, and spoken word?  Laughable.  Beer bottle chandeliers?  Hanging aluminum can lanterns?  Bench seating?  Public transportation?  Figuring out how to get all that crafty crap in and out?  How to remove staples from your groomsman’s face?  Stay tuned. 

16 comments:

  1. Awww I love you!! Most grooms wouldn't do this (write a post, help w/ wedding planning, etc) so you are, in a word, awesome. Ps, you're totally gonna get some lovin' from BB tonight. I just know it.
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  2. Oh man, he's taking charge with some serious force. Sounds like that's exactly what BB needs.

    And Britt, I can relate. My husband has absolutely no knack for the creativity, but when I was struggling to maintain a proper ratio for tissue paper pom poms and he offered to make me a math formula, I was eternally grateful. Take the help where you can get it.
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  3. Go get your passport renewed too. Today.
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  4. I'm don't believe women get a knight in shining armor, but it looks like Bowie Bride actually has one. And he's coming to the rescue with "construction, logistics, and pain." Love it! Go Mike!
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  5. Man, I love it! My hubs drew me formulas for everything which made me giggle. I applaud you! Well done friend! PS, I can't WAIT to hear how to get staples out of a groomsman's face :)
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  6. love this blog Mike and what you're gonna do before the wedding, even more!!!!!!! love, MIL to be :))
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  7. Wow, I think I'm a little bit in love.
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  8. Bwahahahahaha. Brilliant.

    Also - GO RENEW YOUR PASSPORT! :-)
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  9. ---Ps, you're totally gonna get some lovin' from BB tonight. I just know it.

    B and I are saving our sexuality for the wedding night. Nearly 8 years of tension will be broken that evening. Brittany's going to end up more knocked up than octomom.
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  10. Haha! Awesome. "The cavalry is here."
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  11. you are one lucky gal britt!
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  12. "I will now be commanding this wedding, and I intend to rule with strength and with terror. " hliarious. welcome to the blogging world, mr. BB.
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  13. O.M.G. geekcore to the max groom + design conscious bride = t3h awesome.
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  14. Cant wait for photobooth how to!!!! Really, like please do it first since I'm getting married in a month!!!:P
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  15. Brilliant post. If you weren't marrying him BB there'd be a queue now!
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